If we are not “changing” our clients, then what are we doing? In this video I address this common question and explain how SFBT respectfully accomplishes change.
This approach is so much more than just the techniques. Many people in our field inaccurately believe they can learn the techniques and thus will have mastery of the approach. This is a recipe for disaster, and I was watching […]
In this video I attempt the unimaginable, letting the viewer inside my head to see what thoughts guide a Solution Focused session. Doing this sort of work is challenging and requires different thinking than other problem focused therapies. In this […]
This week I worked with a couple that reminded me of an important lesson. It occurred during their second session, which started off kind of rocky. Then, amazing happened and I had a realization. In this video I share what hit me […]
This work is tough, there is no doubt. We talk to clients when they are really struggling and, in some cases, they don’t even want to be talking to us. In other cases, the strengths we are supposed to highlight […]